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Polyamory — multiple and simultaneous sexual relationships — means, in practice, a few high value dudes hording all the pussy. Polyamory cheerleaders, like Christopher Ryan, note the shape of our penis heads and go on to weave a happy utopia of free love where all the men and all the women get their rocks off whenever and however they wish, like the bonobos (who, by the way, are territorially squeezed compared to their more prodigiously successful chimp cousins).
But he has to ignore female hypergamous mate choice and male jealousy to concoct this vision of a peaceful hedonist paradise.
I got a sample of 53 poly women, 164 poly men, and 70 monogamous women, and 690 monogamous men.
I think this second factor probably explains some of poly women’s higher number of partners.
There’s another possible skew: I’m not sure how people decided to identify as poly or monogamous (the question itself asked whether you “prefer polyamory” or “prefer monogamy”).
And in this unique moment in history, when everything about work is changing, they also tell us where we’re going.
This list of 101 people represents those to whom we look for inspiration.
[EDIT: Many people are pointing out I’m looking at actually-existing-polyamory, not polyamory as it would be practiced if it hypothetically took over all of society.